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Why do I still attack myself if the abuse is over?

 

You were allocated the role of family scapegoat and experienced forced community exile. You’ve had to extract yourself from the toxic family system for your survival.  Even though you’re free from ...

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"Healing happens in Relationship" - I disagree

 

There’s a narrative circulating the healing space that says,

"If the trauma happened in relationship then the healing must happen in relationship.

This never sat well with me because I personall...

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Time's Up for Parents who Abuse

 

We’re living in an important time in terms of family scapegoating abuse - a real inflection point. 

 

The Age of Silence is fading - indeed the Silent Generation - those now age 80 - 97 are mostl...

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